038 Question everything | Laura Childs

‘What if…’ changes our path. Opens a world of possibilities. And in that world we might find something fantastic, or fierce, about ourselves and our bodies and our personal power
— Laura Childs -

When I first heard Laura’s story I was thrilled to know that she is both a healthy weight advocate and passionate about real food.  No shakes and pills!  How wonderful that her willingness to help others achieve what she and her daughter Veronica did, led to the creation of a business. It's a unique business in that it centres around the most amazing community support for people desiring to be a healthy weight.  Laura truly walks her talk and embodies the belief that when it comes to our health, we can always improve it if we learn to question everything.

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Laura Childs talking healthy weight on Living Fabulously with Bev

We spoke about 

  • How the outcome of routine check-up created a catalyst for change

  • The value of research in understanding how to navigate nutrition

  • How leading by example attracted people who needed help

  • Recognising that a passion to serve was in fact a business

  • The need for awareness, compassion and amusement

  • How learning to question everything will shift beliefs and more

  • Putting ourselves first as a role model for others in our lives

  • The unique approach of the Utmost Diet membership site

  • Lessons from a 3 year old child

Value Quotes 

”I’m always amazed at what the human body is capable of – even when our health is degrading when we haven’t taken care of ourselves as well as we could have”

“And right up until my family doctor’s wake up call in 2013 I had no idea that my health and longevity was even in my control. I was certain that my fate would be determined more by genetics than by my actions”

“With a sombre expression my doctor informs me that I’ve gained enough weight to be classified as obese and that I’m showing signs of insulin resistance. And soon - she promises – she will be serving up a diagnosis and a life long prescriptions for type 2 Diabetes”

“And I’ll tell you – when we compared that ideal to the Government Guidelines – we had practically flipped it upside down”

“We realized that this is how we used to eat when we lived on the farm, how we all ate before the Industrial Era, before the availability of refined oils and processed flours and all these darn chemicals in our foods”

“We actually didn’t create a business – the business created us. And in a sense, it continues to create itself”

“The world is changed by your example, not by your opinion.” Paulo Coelho

“We got so busy, researching for people and learning more about how healthy fats heal our cells, how sugar damages our cells, and how all the toxins in our foods are causing so many illnesses”

“We realized we had to step up and do whatever we could to help others reach their healthy body weight”

“I’d never thought about it until I embarked on my own journey – but I’ve seen it in others since. How we all go through a long series of mindset shifts – and attitudes – as we walk that path back to wellness”

“The greatest lesson I’ve learned is that when it comes to your health, it can always be improved”

“I can’t even begin to tell you how much your signature sleep course has helped me – the tools, knowledge, awareness – within. And feeling that underlying self-compassion built into everything you do. A dose of acceptance and forgiveness plus the inspiration to keep moving forward on the quest.”

“I learned to “question everything” – my doctor’s diagnosis, my beliefs, and my perceived potential”

“We don’t set great examples for our children or anyone else if we’re so busy looking after every one that we’re exhausted, run down, and potentially growing bitter”

“That’s another area where you’ve really helped me in awareness – your sleep journal – five minutes per day shows me how I’m treating myself, what I might like to improve on tomorrow, and the gifts of each day that I might have forgotten if I had simply crawled into bed, exhausted”

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Until next time fabulous podcast listener, I’m Bev and I invite you to live the fab life with me now! 

Episode Links 

You can find Laura Childs at:

Website:  http://utmostdiet.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/utmostdiet

My online course Sleeping Fabulously is a four week course where I take troubled sleepers through the process of understanding their sleep habits, to creating new habits that let them sleep soundly through the night.

You know how passionate I am about this subject and you know that it’s time for me to take my sleep message to more people.

Can I ask you to do something?

Would you be willing to be my Champion and champion the cause of better health and sleep with me?

What if, together, we could change ONE person’s life for the better? What if we could start more conversations about the topic of well-rested living? What if we could be...well, be rebels together?

Are you in?

I hope so!

Contact me if you need ideas or head to http://bit.ly/sleepfabulously to check out all the details and share the link thoughtfully with your friends and on social media

Thanks in advance for being a fabulous change maker

036 Modern day miracle | Cornelia Constantinescu

I told my husband that we have to forgive the person that hit us, who caused the car accident, because if we don’t forgive that person we can’t heal ourselves
— Cornelia Constantinescu -

What would you do if your young child was so badly injured in a car accident that the doctor’s treatment plan seemed as traumatic as living with a disfigurement? In such a difficult situation Cornelia Constantinescu turned to what she intuitively knew about forgiveness, the belief her child could recover and took action within her control. This truly is a modern day miracle of recovery and creates the context to explore how we can release trauma and bring about healing in our lives.

Inspire yourself with these essential insights from Cornelia Constantinescu

LiveFab 036 Modern day miracle Cornelia Constantinescu

We spoke about 

  • Cornelia’s journey to find a better life

  • The need for forgiveness

  • A modern day miracle of recovery

  • Releasing past trauma and moving forward freely in our lives

  • The power of Emotional Freedom Technique (or Tapping) as a mind body tool

  • Addressing the experience underpinning your emotions

  • Finding a way to be with ease and joy even when challenging

Value Quotes 

“I wanted to do whatever I knew and I could do or possibly do because I’m a human being”

“I told my husband that we have to forgive the person that hit us, who produced the car accident because if we don’t forgive that person we can’t heal ourselves”

“In 2 days, the same doctors told my husband it’s a miracle that they didn’t see anything like this They asked us what we did that the girl recovered so well”

“I help so many people heal from their illness, with their money and their relationship that for me it was a must to do everything that I knew and could to help my daughter to heal”

“It is very important to get to the root of the trauma or emotion”

“Release the old habit and we put on a new habit”

“We have to address the emotion.  We have to give the emotion a voice because this way we find our balance”

“We are coming from our childhood with the life that we have until we release these traumas and these past experiences. The life that we have is something we learned in our childhood”

“We are so attached to our emotions and our past experiences that we are not even aware that we are doing the same things that our parents did”

“Just be present that the goal is to live fabulously and things will align. A mentor will come. A coach will come. A friend will come. A book will come”

“We are here to help one another and to do great things in the world and we deserve it”

If you got value from this episode if you have not yet done so please Subscribe, Rate and Review on iTunes or Stitcher. You can follow the instructions here.  If you know someone else that would get value from this episode as well please share it with them.

Until next time fabulous podcast listener, I’m Bev and I invite you to live the fab life with me now! 

Episode Links 

You can find Cornelia Constantinescu at:

Website:  http://www.corneliaconstantinescu.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/corneliacoach/

The next live round of Sleeping Fabulously starts on Monday, 3 April 2017. It’s a 4 week course to transform your sleep. You’ve probably tried a few things to get better sleep but you just can’t turn this around. If you want more good days and you could do with less nights of struggle then this is the course for you. All the details can be found at http://bit.ly/sleepfabulously

035 Why is change so hard | Dr Bridget Cooper

I love Living Fabulously. Just saying the name of your work is just exactly what we should all be doing more of. Life’s too short to be doing anything else
— Dr Bridget Cooper -

When your guest describes herself as a cage rattler, change agent, thought shifter, sculptor of human potential you know that the conversation is going to be epic. As an author of 5 books on change, Dr Bridget Cooper is refreshingly candid yet empathetic and pragmatic about our transitions with change. As a change strategist she has had her own transformation and is the subject of her latest book ‘Little Landslides’.

Inspire yourself with these essential insights from Dr Bridget Cooper

We spoke about 

  • Exploring and accepting your story to embrace personal change

  • Pro-active steps to change vs change because of a crisis

  • Being attentive to our 4 core needs each day

  • Alignment of our work as change agents to expand the positive aspects of living

  • Breaking the cycle of negative self-talk

  • Create a new track by choice

  • Bridget’s new book ‘Little Landslides’ about rising up from personal pain

  • Three beautiful tips for living fabulously

Value Quotes 

“Change puts you in a new position to rethink things you’ve always thought even though they weren’t working, you’ve always thought them and there is some comfort in that”

“Looking at the story and recognising and accepting that it got you where you are but it might not or won’t likely get you to where you need to be” [sic]

“Resistance comes from not feeling mastery over where you’re headed”

“Going to sleep may not meet the need for validation or connection so they’re going to go find it before they go to bed which is going to have them lingering on social media for a long time”

“You can change how you feel if you change how you think”

“Shifting the narrative on how we are coming to the conclusions that bring us to be really berating ourselves”

“What we focus our attention on we get more of”

“Receive things in a way that makes us grateful… and those things then help us to focus in those positive, grateful, abundant kind of mindset vs getting stuck in that old tape of ‘I’m not good enough’, ‘I’m not smart enough’, ‘I’m not hard working enough’” 

If you got value from this episode if you have not yet done so please Subscribe, Rate and Review on iTunes or Stitcher. You can follow the instructions here.  If you know someone else that would get value from this episode as well please share it with them.

Until next time fabulous podcast listener, I’m Bev and I invite you to live the fab life with me now!  

Episode Links 

You can find Dr Bridget Cooper at:

Website:  http://drbridgetcooper.com/

Face book: https://www.facebook.com/DrBridgetCooper/

The next live round of Sleeping Fabulously, a 4 week course to transform your sleep starts on Monday, 20 February 2017.

You’ve probably tried a few things to get better sleep but you just can’t turn this around. If you want more good days and you could do with less nights of struggle then this is the course for you. All the details can be found at http://bit.ly/sleepfabulously

You can also download my FREE Guided Relaxation for Restorative Sleep at http://bit.ly/GuidedRelaxation